Trust and Surrender The Alchemy
Queen Oluwatobiloba Queen Oluwatobiloba

Trust and Surrender The Alchemy

Trust and surrender the alchemy is the alchemy of the soul. Of the healthy feminine aspect of each and everyone of us known as the Divine feminine. Everybody has a Feminine aspect, in men it is the part that is their soul, that innately knows gentleness, tenderness, nurturing, softness, belonging and openness without tension or restriction. For women the Divine feminine is the healthy dominant aspect of womanhood that knows what to do, when to do it, and how to do it without thinking, but knowing and doing in a synchronistic way that is simply sublime.

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Unconditional Self Love
Queen Oluwatobiloba Queen Oluwatobiloba

Unconditional Self Love

Promise me if there is only one thing you do and live in 2024, let it be unconditional self love. We all desire on a soul level to be seen, to be heard, to be loved and to be respected for who we truly are and what we do.

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Tale of Aje Part 4
Queen Oluwatobiloba Queen Oluwatobiloba

Tale of Aje Part 4

Now these women are coming back, rewriting the story, the ones that were burnt alive, the ones that were buried alive, the ones that were gagged alive, the ones that were drowned alive, the ones stoned to death, beaten to death, dragged to death, shamed to death, abused to death. These women the so called witches - aje are now coming back to rewrite the story.

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Tale of Aje Part 3
Queen Oluwatobiloba Queen Oluwatobiloba

Tale of Aje Part 3

So with this some of the women abused their power, so the men thought what can we do about this, the women are in control of so many things, how can we share this power with them, so we don’t become use-less. In this process, the misconstrued mindset of men and some not so powerful women decided to call the very powerful women witches - Aje.

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The Tale of Aje Part 2
Queen Oluwatobiloba Queen Oluwatobiloba

The Tale of Aje Part 2

You see the word β€œAje” in Yoruba language has several meaning, one interpretation is a witch as in the negative meaning of a witch. For this tale of Aje we will discuss 3 meanings of Aje according to the Yoruba language that relates to the Iyaami/Iyaami Osoronga.

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The Tale of Aje
Queen Oluwatobiloba Queen Oluwatobiloba

The Tale of Aje

In our rebellion we called ourselves β€œaje” - in English a witch. Am a witch! We are witches! It is what they labeled us. So to prove to them that name WITCH doesn’t affect us, we take on the name. We rebelliously take in on, but what we take on is almost a curse, a strong negative energy created by the ones that couldn’t stand us, and feared the power of the sacred mystical mysterious women

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You Are Enough - Unconditional Self Love

You Are Enough - Unconditional Self Love

Unconditional Self Love - A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage. The unconditional self love program will guide, support, heal and help you to prevent and avoid self sabotage and it will teach you to love yourself when you self sabotage. Life is the great teacher and sometimes the lesson is to love rather than repress, suppress, deny or hide in the shadow

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It is possible to live wellβ€Šβ€”β€Šthrough a connection with God
God, Healing, Holistic Health, Health, Unconditional Self Love Queen Oluwatobiloba God, Healing, Holistic Health, Health, Unconditional Self Love Queen Oluwatobiloba

It is possible to live wellβ€Šβ€”β€Šthrough a connection with God

In the last 10 years have been learning, practicing, and now sharing holistic tools and techniques that support living a quieter, healthier, more peaceful, and loving life. Most importantly am constantly learning and remembering ancient wisdom and modern techniques for healing, self transformation, holistic health and wellbeing. These tools constantly bring me back to love, health, wellbeing, pure unconditional love for self and for all of existence.

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Self Commitment - Officially 8 Days Sober

Self Commitment - Officially 8 Days Sober

On the 1st of January 2023, a bold move was made to announce to the world on social media my first official day of sobriety. It was not in the form of a new years resolution or maybe it was subconsciously. Something powerful came over me, this had to be shared with the world not just for personal accountability, but also to encourage anyone with something that may seem challenging to keep going, find ways to keep going, and not give up.

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Thy Will Be Done Oh Lord

Thy Will Be Done Oh Lord

In the last 10 years, have learnt tools that support me to live quieter, more peaceful and lovingly. Most importantly learnt tools and ways for healing, transformation, health and wellness. For me these tools constantly bring me back to love, pure unconditional love for self and for all of existence.

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Jump off that Edge β€”β€Š Day 1 Sober 1 January 2023

Jump off that Edge β€”β€Š Day 1 Sober 1 January 2023

According to the Gregorian calendar it is New Year’s Day of 2023. Happy New Year to you and thanks for stopping by to read this. Today is the first official day of publicly talking about alcoholism. The struggle with alcoholism and the sobriety journey in the last 4 years.

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The Human Struggle To Find Spirit, Purpose and Meaning

The Human Struggle To Find Spirit, Purpose and Meaning

On this episode of Life Is A Story We Tell Ourselves, we are joined by Queen Oluwatobiloba who will help us explore the continuing human struggle to find spirit, purpose and meaning.

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Importance of Self Care

Importance of Self Care

Queen Oluwatobiloba1 talks about the importance of self-care, the different types of self-care you can practice, key takeaways from all the information, and ways to work with her and be guided towards developing a holistically health self care routine

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Take The Risk

Take The Risk

A write up about sobriety, taking the risk to go on a recovery and sobriety Journey from coping with alcohol and alcoholism. It is worth it, and if you need someone that has been on the journey to guide, heal, support and hold you accountable then I am here at your service.

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A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage

A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage

Unconditional Self Love - A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage. The unconditional self love program will guide, support, heal and help you to prevent and avoid self sabotage and it will teach you to love yourself when you self sabotage. Life is the great teacher and sometimes the lesson is to love rather than repress, suppress, deny or hide in the shadow

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