The Tale of Aje
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The Tale of Aje

In our rebellion we called ourselves “aje” - in English a witch. Am a witch! We are witches! It is what they labeled us. So to prove to them that name WITCH doesn’t affect us, we take on the name. We rebelliously take in on, but what we take on is almost a curse, a strong negative energy created by the ones that couldn’t stand us, and feared the power of the sacred mystical mysterious women

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You Are Enough - Unconditional Self Love

You Are Enough - Unconditional Self Love

Unconditional Self Love - A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage. The unconditional self love program will guide, support, heal and help you to prevent and avoid self sabotage and it will teach you to love yourself when you self sabotage. Life is the great teacher and sometimes the lesson is to love rather than repress, suppress, deny or hide in the shadow

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Self Commitment - Officially 8 Days Sober

Self Commitment - Officially 8 Days Sober

On the 1st of January 2023, a bold move was made to announce to the world on social media my first official day of sobriety. It was not in the form of a new years resolution or maybe it was subconsciously. Something powerful came over me, this had to be shared with the world not just for personal accountability, but also to encourage anyone with something that may seem challenging to keep going, find ways to keep going, and not give up.

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Thy Will Be Done Oh Lord

Thy Will Be Done Oh Lord

In the last 10 years, have learnt tools that support me to live quieter, more peaceful and lovingly. Most importantly learnt tools and ways for healing, transformation, health and wellness. For me these tools constantly bring me back to love, pure unconditional love for self and for all of existence.

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Jump off that Edge —  Day 1 Sober 1 January 2023

Jump off that Edge —  Day 1 Sober 1 January 2023

According to the Gregorian calendar it is New Year’s Day of 2023. Happy New Year to you and thanks for stopping by to read this. Today is the first official day of publicly talking about alcoholism. The struggle with alcoholism and the sobriety journey in the last 4 years.

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The Human Struggle To Find Spirit, Purpose and Meaning

The Human Struggle To Find Spirit, Purpose and Meaning

On this episode of Life Is A Story We Tell Ourselves, we are joined by Queen Oluwatobiloba who will help us explore the continuing human struggle to find spirit, purpose and meaning.

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Importance of Self Care

Importance of Self Care

Queen Oluwatobiloba1 talks about the importance of self-care, the different types of self-care you can practice, key takeaways from all the information, and ways to work with her and be guided towards developing a holistically health self care routine

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Take The Risk

Take The Risk

A write up about sobriety, taking the risk to go on a recovery and sobriety Journey from coping with alcohol and alcoholism. It is worth it, and if you need someone that has been on the journey to guide, heal, support and hold you accountable then I am here at your service.

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A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage

A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage

Unconditional Self Love - A way to Heal People Pleasing Syndrome which Leads to Self Sabotage. The unconditional self love program will guide, support, heal and help you to prevent and avoid self sabotage and it will teach you to love yourself when you self sabotage. Life is the great teacher and sometimes the lesson is to love rather than repress, suppress, deny or hide in the shadow

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