Confidence is a container that holds many different sounds, words, feelings, sensations, emotions, experiences and thoughts for many of us. In a world where performance, fakery, pretentiousness, keeping up appearances and the likes, seems to be the go to for most, true confidence needs no words.

We know live in a world, where most of us do not want to embody the wisdom of our learning, studies and experiences before publicly sharing. Over sharing, over exposure, over pretentiousness seems to be the go to for most. Often times, people are looking for someone they have placed above themselves, someone they have placed in their position of authority, a guru, a teacher, or the like, to see them, hear them and validate them.

Many years of researching, learning, studying, engaging, embodying, working with confidence as a teacher, highlighted what most people believe to be confidence, can be:

1. Pretentiousness - pretending to be vast or widely knowledgeable about something to appear confident and knowing.

2. Arrogance - a state of being overly imposing, being overly superior or overly prideful, due to fear of not being good enough. The root of Arrogance can be ignorance, shame, fear, pride, obnoxious, stupidity.

3. Low Self Esteem In Disguise - this is one of the most tricky ones. Most people will not acknowledge or admit to themselves, that this is true. Low self esteem can usually be a struggle with fear of failure, and/or fear of rejection.

4. Fear of failure - In most situations, this can cause people to struggle with internal conflict. Whereby the wish to learn and grow are present, but the potency/strength of the condition, that may have caused the ego to fragment, which originally caused the fear of failure, can prevent the person from learning and growing. Therefore holding the person hostage in the most fearful way, and unfortunately stunting growth.

5. Fear. Fear can sometimes make one appear confident. However with true confidence there is no fear. There is only a knowing that what is true, needs no validation.

6. Deception - the biggest and baddest of them all. What truth do you need to tell today? So you can be truly confident in an area of your life.

7. Denial - what do you deny in yourself, or others, or in the world, that may be preventing you from being truly confident?

A disconnection from true confidence usually comes from ignorance, greed, stupidity, unconsciousness, lack of virtues, or one of the karmic lessons that one has come to fulfill in these lifetime.

Over the summer months, starting from July or August 2024, I will be opening the program on mastering true confidence - called baby spider. Baby spider is a 3 months intensive journey of self mastery. To become the adult spider that truly knows how to weave his/her web consciously and confidently.

If this is something that speaks to you, kindly reply to this email to show interest. You will be added to a list, and you will receive an email once the program is about to launch in the summer. Sending you much love and blessings from paradise.

Ire o! Blessings!

Pure Divine Unconditional Love Always

Queen Oluwatobiloba1

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